What is your urgency? Do you have any? Can you display any when you have to?
If you don’t show any urgency when you want to get something done personally or you want someone else to do something for you, chances are it won’t happen. Why, because it doesn’t appear important enough.
You want to make things happen? Get behind it with some of your own urgency. I’m going to call it “you’regency”. Go get some if you don’t have any and see what you get done!!